According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, 40 million adults over the age of 18 suffer from an anxiety disorder. If you are one of them, you know how difficult your life can feel most days. When anxiety strikes, the world around us can become a sort of funhouse, only not that much fun. It’s important to be able to self-soothe in these instances. But how can you calm an anxiety attack subtly when you’re out in public?
Breath Work
As soon as you feel the anxiety coming on, focus intently on your breathing and nothing else. Begin to take slow… deep breaths. Inhale for a slow count of three… hold for a count of three… and exhale for a count of three. Slow deep breaths send a signal to our body that we are not under attack and everything is okay.
Talk to Yourself
In your mind, remind yourself that you are having an experience but that you are NOT that experience. While you feel that something is wrong, remind yourself that you are actually safe and all is well.
Visualize
Think of something that calms you. This may be your childhood bedroom or your grandparent’s home. It could be your favorite beach or your own bathtub. Simply put yourself IN that space. Use your full imagination to feel yourself there and allow the calm to settle over you.
Practice Listening Meditation
If you’ve never tried listening meditation, I highly recommend it to everyone. But it can be especially beneficial when you are feeling anxious, and here’s why. Listening requires you to stop thinking. Try it now. Stop reading and instead listen to all of the ambient sounds there in the room with you, outside the door and window.
What do you hear?
Let your sense of hearing grow and grow, picking up more subtle sounds. The buzz of the lights overhead… the noise of the ice maker… a bee at the window… your dog’s collar down the hall… It’s actually a very fun exercise to do. And in order to REALLY GIVE SOUND YOUR FULL ATTENTION, you can’t think while listening. It’s a bit like trying to juggle while standing on your hands, it simply cannot be done. Much of our anxiety comes from our anxious thoughts. It’s our reptilian brain trying to keep us alive by alerting us to all of the dangers around us. But when we meditate, this mind chatter goes away.
Start Working With an Anxiety Therapist in Jenison, MI
When an anxiety attack comes on, life can feel unbearable. The next time this happens to you in public, try one or more of these techniques. If you’d like to speak with someone about your anxiety, please get in touch. Our team of caring therapists would be happy to offer support in coping with anxiety and explore the best treatment options for you. Start your therapy journey with Great Lakes Wellness Counseling by following these simple steps:
- Schedule an appointment or call (616)202-1910 for a free consultation.
- Get to know a caring therapist.
- Start coping with your anxiety, no matter where it occurs.
Other Services Offered with Great Lakes Wellness Counseling
Anxiety treatment isn’t the only service offered at Great Lakes Wellness Counseling. We are happy to offer a variety of mental health support to parents, adults, couples, or teens. Our team offers services including Christian Counseling, Therapy for Men, Depression Treatment, and Therapy For Women. These services can be accessed both in person in Jenison and online throughout Michigan. Feel free to visit our blog for more helpful content!
